+Katherine von Bora, 1552+
Break out the lights shine them bright
Hang them from tree and from rafter
Let them burn all through the night
Light up your hearts with the laughter
The Christmas star, shines from afar
A herald of joy far and wide
Break out the lights Christmastide
Ring Out The Bells by Peter Mayer
Five years ago today my father, Frank Glusenkamp woke up on
his 90th birthday and suffered a stroke. The stroke was so debilitating that he
had seizures for 3 and ½ hours and never regained consciousness. He died 14 days later on January 4th, 2008.
Many of you h2odevos community folks walked with me and
talked with me as our family went through the “valley of the shadow of
death.” I will always remember the
“light” you gave to us during those dark days. Here is part of an obituary
about my dad.
There isn’t a day that I don’t think about him. I suppose
our relationship was typical of many fathers who were members of the “greatest
generation” who had sons and daughters growing up in the 1960’s and 1970’s. I
know that’s why I like Peter’s song, Harmony, so much because it names the distance and difficulty
of being in “harmony” with a parent or with a son or daughter.
Frank Glusenkamp was a plain speaking person. My sister,
Trina and I marvel how she (an attorney) and me (a preacher man) can “smooze”
whereas our father didn’t have time for that. Now that is not to say he didn’t
talk, in fact he loved to authentically talk and listen to just about anyone.
But, when he asked “how are you?” He actually meant it and wanted to know “how
you were.” “Smalltalk” was not something
he was interested in doing. “Plain talk” or “getting to the point” was were he
was at.
He’d be happy that I share the following information with
you today which can be found HERE.
“The most common symptoms of stroke can be remembered by the
acronym FAST:
- F = Face: Is one side of the face drooping down?
- A = Arm: Can the person raise both arms, or is one arm weak?
- S = Speech: Is speech slurred or confusing?
- T = Time: Time is critical!! Call 9-1-1 immediately!”
You also can get more info HERE.
If you haven’t spoken to your parent or an adult child for
some time, why not pick up the phone today and give them a call? You’ll be glad
you did. Furthermore, I can just about guarantee it that your loved one will be
very glad you did. If you need an excuse or reason to make the call, tell them
that Pastor Ron is conducting a PR campaign (with the PR standing for Personal
Relationship)
Blessings,
rtg
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